“You don’t have to justify anything, Abiel.”
That is probably only the second time I have had someone stare me in the eyes and say those words with that much force.
I justify everything, expecting that the standard I hold myself to is the standard that others expect of me. And inevitably when I don’t meet my ridiculously high standard I start justifying to everyone else why I am the way I am or what happened or whatnot.
Below are three statements I have been afraid to make public to certain circles of my world for fear of having to justify. I’m not going to justify them.
I believe in God, Jesus, and Holy Spirit, but also many aspects of other belief systems. I do not call myself Christian.
The LGBTQI+ community is one of the strongest I know and I admire the risk it takes to be who they are in the face of blatant human rights denial.
I’m not going to get married.
I love you all!